What is CFNM ?

CFNM stands for Clothed Female Naked Man, or clothed woman, naked man. CFNM is a fetish where the woman remains fully clothed while the man is naked.

Within BDSM this is mainly used to emphasize the power difference between the Domina and the sub. In fact, it is generally taken for granted that a slave should be naked (or scantily clad) so that his body is easily accessible to the Domina's wishes.

There is more to CFNM, however. It's a fetish in itself; both parties enjoy watching and being watched. The woman is a voyeur, as it were, enjoying the view.

She may decide to please the man, order him to please himself or ridicule the size of his penis. The man's body is relegated to an object of lust or, on the contrary, rubbed in that his body is inadequate to serve as an object of lust.
CFNM parties

Within the CFNM scene the CFNM parties are the best known. A CFNM party means that the dressed women at a party are served by one or more naked men. The women can use the servants as they wish. While it sounds like this is within BDSM, I want to point out that it absolutely doesn't have to be!

The women can also enjoy, for example, a striptease, an erotic show or simply the view of a naked male body.

The women can approve the body for their entertainment, but they don't have to be dominant, because let's face it… What woman can't enjoy a wonderful party where she is served at her beck and call by a beautiful, naked man?

Unfortunately, CFNM parties are not very common in the Netherlands or Belgium, although they are in high demand by mainly men. Perhaps We should change that.

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